By Kathleen Parrish
Getting him back can have its ups and downs. You will have moments when you are so down that you can barely take it anymore. It feels like every day that nothing ever changes and it can be easy to give up hope. That is what makes it so exciting when you begin to see changes in your ex. This is why whenever you start to feel that twinkle of hope in your heart again, I encourage you to grab hold of it and run with it!
While you might feel at times that you're making something out of nothing, soon you will know without a doubt that things are starting to happen. It could be a change in his attitude towards you that only you might recognize when you are together or his tone of voice might be gentler with you than it was. There will be little clues that tell you that things are changing in his mind and his attitude towards you is softening.
No matter what anyone says, you know your ex better than anyone else. You know when his heart is changing. You know when the wheels are turning. Keep an eye out for signs that things are changing in his life and his heart. It could be something as simple as him changing his profile picture on a social networking site or a random text message asking you about something that you know he already has the answer for. The important thing is that you be aware of signs that he's coming back to you slowly but surely.
While it might be very tempting to go crazy and want to seal the deal as quickly as possible, this is a delicate time. If you revert back to your old ways and try to push him or convince him to get back together you're going to ruin everything. Instead, enjoy this feeling and these moments when you feel like he's coming back to you. Really feel that joy and remain cool, calm, happy and optimistic about your chances of getting him back.
There might be times when things aren't moving as fast as you might like but don't let your doubts crowd out all the good things that are happening. Remain optimistic about your love and your relationship and be proud of yourself. Know without a doubt that these small signs and positive steps are just the beginning and make sure that you are really ready to let him back into your life. Make sure that your life is together and that you remain positive and optimistic about everything. Let him fall in love with you like he did the first time and don't let doubt and impatience ruin everything that you have worked so hard for in getting him back.
While you might feel at times that you're making something out of nothing, soon you will know without a doubt that things are starting to happen. It could be a change in his attitude towards you that only you might recognize when you are together or his tone of voice might be gentler with you than it was. There will be little clues that tell you that things are changing in his mind and his attitude towards you is softening.
No matter what anyone says, you know your ex better than anyone else. You know when his heart is changing. You know when the wheels are turning. Keep an eye out for signs that things are changing in his life and his heart. It could be something as simple as him changing his profile picture on a social networking site or a random text message asking you about something that you know he already has the answer for. The important thing is that you be aware of signs that he's coming back to you slowly but surely.
While it might be very tempting to go crazy and want to seal the deal as quickly as possible, this is a delicate time. If you revert back to your old ways and try to push him or convince him to get back together you're going to ruin everything. Instead, enjoy this feeling and these moments when you feel like he's coming back to you. Really feel that joy and remain cool, calm, happy and optimistic about your chances of getting him back.
There might be times when things aren't moving as fast as you might like but don't let your doubts crowd out all the good things that are happening. Remain optimistic about your love and your relationship and be proud of yourself. Know without a doubt that these small signs and positive steps are just the beginning and make sure that you are really ready to let him back into your life. Make sure that your life is together and that you remain positive and optimistic about everything. Let him fall in love with you like he did the first time and don't let doubt and impatience ruin everything that you have worked so hard for in getting him back.
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