By Jamie Tobin
The first thing you need to understand when it comes to getting a girlfriend, is that it's not as hard as most guys think. Yes it takes effort, but it is by no means rocket science. Once you get how it works, it's easy.
As this is something new for you, you will have to be aware that you will need to change. You are going to learn new things. You are going to meet beautiful women. And as all of this is happening, you will need to adjust your behavior and probably some beliefs along the way as well.
Then you need to start approaching women. And get used to approaching women. Your dream girl will not walk up to you hoping for some attention from you. You have to go out and get her. Which means you will have to walk up to her even though she is a total stranger and start a conversation with her.
Once you are approaching women regularly, you'll need to learn how women think. Don't look at the situation from your own point of view. Think about how the girl looks at attraction and sex. This is a secret of ladies men. They know what the girl is thinking and this makes them successful.
Now it is time to get some education on what girls find sex and attractive. Are there certain types of men that girl like? If so, why do they like those guys? Is there something that those guys are doing different? Learn as much as you can.
Get your body language under control. Attractive body language is a signal to women and it makes them really interested in you. Make sure that your body language does not look like you are a helpless boy.
Get comfortable talking to beautiful women. The more you talk to beautiful women, the more comfortable you become around them and the more you learn. This will at the end of the day help you to figure out what you should do to get the girl you want.
Make it a personal goal to learn something new about attraction on a daily basis. When you talk to women every day, you learn every day. My suggestion is to set a goal for yourself to meet a new woman every day for about 90 days. The more you meet, the more you learn.
Understand that you as a man must take the risks in the interaction. When you have a girl that really likes you, it is very unlikely that she will tell you that she likes you. The truth is that she is just as afraid of rejection as you are. And because of that she will probably not put herself out there.
The last thing I can say is, do not censor yourself. If you have something on your mind, let her know. If you think that she has beautiful lips that you just want to kiss or bite, tell her. When guys really like a girl, they become scared and don't want to offend her. This is the biggest mistake. Just say what is on your mind.
As this is something new for you, you will have to be aware that you will need to change. You are going to learn new things. You are going to meet beautiful women. And as all of this is happening, you will need to adjust your behavior and probably some beliefs along the way as well.
Then you need to start approaching women. And get used to approaching women. Your dream girl will not walk up to you hoping for some attention from you. You have to go out and get her. Which means you will have to walk up to her even though she is a total stranger and start a conversation with her.
Once you are approaching women regularly, you'll need to learn how women think. Don't look at the situation from your own point of view. Think about how the girl looks at attraction and sex. This is a secret of ladies men. They know what the girl is thinking and this makes them successful.
Now it is time to get some education on what girls find sex and attractive. Are there certain types of men that girl like? If so, why do they like those guys? Is there something that those guys are doing different? Learn as much as you can.
Get your body language under control. Attractive body language is a signal to women and it makes them really interested in you. Make sure that your body language does not look like you are a helpless boy.
Get comfortable talking to beautiful women. The more you talk to beautiful women, the more comfortable you become around them and the more you learn. This will at the end of the day help you to figure out what you should do to get the girl you want.
Make it a personal goal to learn something new about attraction on a daily basis. When you talk to women every day, you learn every day. My suggestion is to set a goal for yourself to meet a new woman every day for about 90 days. The more you meet, the more you learn.
Understand that you as a man must take the risks in the interaction. When you have a girl that really likes you, it is very unlikely that she will tell you that she likes you. The truth is that she is just as afraid of rejection as you are. And because of that she will probably not put herself out there.
The last thing I can say is, do not censor yourself. If you have something on your mind, let her know. If you think that she has beautiful lips that you just want to kiss or bite, tell her. When guys really like a girl, they become scared and don't want to offend her. This is the biggest mistake. Just say what is on your mind.
About the Author:
Jamie Tobin shows average men how to get a girlfriend fast. To get more detailed information on attracting women, just go check it out here.